“Siblings: Children of the same parents, who are perfectly normal, until they get together.” Sam Levenson
Yes, you got it right! In a household where there is more than one child, sibling rivalry is inevitable! It doesn't mean there is something wrong with your children or you are going wrong with parenting. Though in some cases, it can be worrisome for parents. But, don’t get disgruntled. Stay calm and non-judgemental. This approach will make your little ones work out their conflicts in a healthy way.
It is difficult to comprehend the reasons for sibling rivalry. Many a time kids are itching to annoy each other to kill their boredom or to get attention from a parent. There can be instances when they want to play with the same toy and no amount of convincing or options help them. Likewise, there are many instances that parents witness on a regular basis. The key is to stay patient and step in only if the situation escalates.
On the flip side, siblings learn a few things from quarrels. They might develop qualities such as negotiation and compromise, sharing with each other, being assertive on what they believe is correct. But fighting with a sibling may not be the correct way to learn these attributes. As parents, respect their individuality and encourage a positive bond within the family.
Here are some of the tips that can help you to promote peace in your household. Scroll down, try them out and let us know if they worked right for you!
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