“Don’t try to be perfect. Life isn’t, no one is. Use mistakes and mishaps as opportunities to grow tolerance and to teach, there is such a thing as happy accidents. And love, love, love and listen, listen, listen” – Teri Hatcher.
As parents, we are all always busy with a myriad of demands on our time and attention. and the distractions of technology, just to name a few. All this means that at very often we are very distracted, or sometimes even dismissive of what are kids are saying to us. We fail to listen. We all need to listen to our kids. But that doesn't happen as much as we should.
Let's see if you are actually hearing them and listening to their viewpoint. Please answer the below questions honestly and evaluate your listening skills:-
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I simultaneously carry out other activities when my child is talking about something/someone. |
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I avoid making eye contact with my child while talking with him/her. |
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If I disagree with them. I discontinue the interaction. |
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If they mispronounce any word, I immediately stop them and correct them. |
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I can’t completely concentrate when my kids are talking to me. |
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I interrupt their conversation to answer a phone call. |
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I complete their sentences before they could. |
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I avoid asking questions to avoid confusion. |
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If it doesn’t interest me, I end their conversation as fast as I can. |
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I get bored when their talks are lengthy. |
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When my child isn’t able to convey his/her message properly, I get infuriated. |
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When the television is on and my kid speaks, I can’t help but listen to both. |
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When my child is talking, I don’t pay attention to his/her body language. |
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I get impatient when they don’t talk straight to the point. |
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You start planning your answer/s while they are still speaking. |
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