My Rights To Education Was Taken Away-

Rajathi Samsudeen’s story redefines norms and inspires change.

In a society that imposes restrictions on women’s choices, one woman’s journey of empowerment takes place. Her journey traverses societal norms, challenges, and personal growth, highlighting the power of literature and determination to effect change.

My eldest son, who had come from school, said to me “You shouldn’t write poetry anymore, my school friends too have stopped talking to me”.

The growth of her children and their education became a concern for her. She felt burdened by her responsibilities and anxieties, which prevented her from taking them to Chennai and building a new environment for them, a setting that would help them grow in a different social context.

I had initially thought that my husband might resent my involvement in politics and my public exposure. However, he understood the situation and supported me in contesting elections, even though he couldn’t openly campaign due to the reserved seats for women in the local elections.

Amidst this backdrop, an incident involving the publication of her poem in India Today becomes a turning point. Amidst societal backlash and isolation, her husband becomes an unexpected source of encouragement. His unwavering support and protection of her identity embolden her creative pursuits, leading to a life-altering trajectory.

The transition from a struggling writer to the head of a local government body symbolizes her triumph over adversity. Her husband’s once-simmering concerns transform into pride as she earns recognition in the literary world and governance. The strength of their relationship deepens as they share a common purpose.

The Dravidian movement, one of the largest parties in the Tamil Nadu state, invited me to join them. After five years, I was given the opportunity to become the leader of the Panchayat body. Although it was a significant responsibility, I embraced it with enthusiasm. This role enabled me to implement various projects and initiatives, and I received numerous awards and recognition.

While the Dravidian movement beckons, it’s her leadership role in the Panchayat body that truly shapes her impact. With unyielding enthusiasm, she implements projects, garners awards, and transforms the perception of women’s roles. Her children’s respect underscores the societal shift she’s instrumental in achieving.

At a young age, when I pursued education, I faced resistance due to social norms. Society, culture, and relatives criticized me. Escaping from a society that binds women within its boundaries becomes an essential part of the fierce struggle for liberation.

However, the path of moving on from this situation is not as simple as it seemed. She is now going to school, as her parents asked her to continue her education. Even though her parents told me that there’s no rule in this village that prohibits girls from going to school beyond a certain age, the society around her says differently. They tell her that no one from this village has ever crossed that age to continue their education, and it’s not acceptable to pursue education after the age that’s recommended for girls to go to school. They emphasized that even if she were to continue, it’s not feasible for her to attend school, given the amount of opposition and criticism that would arise.

Without any anxieties, free from monumental endeavors, I continue to navigate that era which is characterized by freedom and the ability to move forward, even without the crutches that helped me in the past. Even today, it lingers within my heart as a source of encouragement.

The weight of societal expectations pushes her to navigate a challenging path toward her dreams. The struggle for education becomes emblematic of the broader fight for liberation.

The critiques and negative comments directed towards me were magnified and made public, causing significant damage to my family’s reputation. In this context, I changed my pen name to “Salmā” to continue writing. This was to shield myself from the direct consequences of expressing my thoughts and opinions, as well as to protect myself from the anger and backlash that could arise from my family. My family’s reputation was closely tied to my writing, and I felt compelled to hide my real identity.

Her journey confronts societal norms that demand women protect family honor. Even as she faces criticism, she adopts the pen name “Salmā,” allowing her to express opinions without direct retribution. Her writing encapsulates the battle against inequality and prejudice, solidifying her role as a catalyst for change.

Amidst societal and family opposition, her passion for literature emerges as a beacon of hope. Despite adversity, she forges ahead, determined to shape a better life through her creative endeavors. Literary exploration and televised insights become her window to the wider world, sparking a relentless desire for change.

I chose to write my poems in secret, preserving them in a small cabinet. During the night, I would take them out and write, hoping to contribute to newspapers in the morning. This was challenging due to the limitations imposed by societal expectations on women and my husband’s concerns. I was deeply troubled by the social structure that perpetuated the suppression of women’s voices and led to restrictions on them, affecting not just me but also my husband and children. The intense connection to literature, the passion for literature, and my vehement struggle are all providing me with a foundation today. Life presents challenges to each individual, and it’s true that we all face our share of obstacles.

As her writing gains recognition, she confronts not only societal norms but also her husband’s traditional background. Her journey, laden with secret writing sessions, encapsulates her resolve to challenge the status quo. In “Salmā,” she finds a voice to bridge personal convictions with societal expectations.

Her story has the potential of resilience and determination. Through literature and unyielding commitment, she transcends challenges and ignites transformation. Her narrative calls for unwavering persistence and collective efforts to forge change, leaving an indelible impact on gender perceptions.

In a world where norms dictate and inequality prevails, her story stands as a beacon of courage, showcasing that change, even on a personal level, can ripple through society. With her journey, she urges us to embrace the power within and the potential of collective action to reshape lives and attitude.

Do get in touch for her story and comment below your thoughts. We’d love to know them:

Leave a Reply


Subscribe to get the latest news & updates delivered directly to your inbox.

You May Also Like